Friday, August 3, 2012

Online Internet Abusers


Thanks to the many comments for adding perspective to yet another bad encounter online with what can be generalized as meeting Internet malevolent minds, minor to major mentally disturbed, who selectively target some person singled out for their personal abuses seeking retaliation for imagined scenarios.

Some persons just lack maturity and social ability to play well in a group situation and as a consequence of their depravity are deprived the benefits the group can provide to them for social well being.

The more intelligent the socially unwell person is the more threat of damages since they can contrive and carry out their hostilities with clever complex and compound maneuvers their minds invent to resolve subconscious internal conflicts with life. The sad situation is that their potential to create good and harmony is never realized because their negative focus overrides normally expected moral and ethical social responsibilities.

Social learning and realizing the rewards of meeting and making friends via online social groups can minimize the damage the few bad encounters with those who are incompatible with the group’s positive mission. The abuser can only achieve his objective if he escape identity, remain anonymous while isolating the target from gathering effective and timely defense help.

Don’t succumb to poor and malicious behavior of abusers with harmful intent. Expose the abuser for his own good, for hope of better social conduct in the future. One member in this group said to send the abuser love, but what he needs most of all is his own self love and self esteem truly earned. Only he can make the changes needed to achieve positive social well being in a group of peers. It is by learning and by social feedback that he can adjust his behavior to achieve mental and social wellness, love, and peace for his own good and others in his life. One by one the collective community improves by improving the conduct of the lesser able ones helping each other to grow and achieve happiness, health, and prosperity. I do not feel ignoring the problem solves anything, never has, never will. The problem just gets worse.

I admit to having social faults, personality faults, but I do try to be a better more loving person and so there is hope for me. Sometimes being positive oriented is what infuriates the more negative minded individuals, IMO.